Multiple 'I' and False Personalities.
According to 4th
Way, people have multiple ‘I’s, not one integrated
‘I’.
How.
Let us first look at the three centers Instinct, Emotional
and Intellect.
One can consider Instinctive Functions as an ‘I’, likewise emotional
and Intellectual.
Now Let us consider a situation,
Emotinally one LOVES HIS WIFE, instinctively DESIRES FOR
ANOTHER WOMAN.
Here supposing,
The instinctive ‘I’ overrides the emotional ‘I' , the person builds a relationship with the other woman,
bringing disharmony in his relationship with his wife.
And further, as defense,
The Intellectual ‘I’ may come out with all sorts of REASONS,
CAUSES to justify the action.
One can easily see how MECHANICALLY, the 'I's played out their act.
Here,
we are not taking any MORAL stance, the
purpose is to highlight the presence of
multiple ‘I’s and their mechanical and contradictory
nature.
Added to these basic ‘I’s,
more ‘I’s
called as ‘Personalities’ are added to the above basic three 'I's.
Among them there may be common characteristics and contradictions as well.
All these multiple ‘I’s
are basically built as a survival strategy.
But, they are not necessarily harmonious or present at the
same time,
One ‘I’ may take precedence over others and the rest will hide
behind depending on the situation.
Now,
the most important aspect of these ‘I’s or Personalities is that one is not aware of several
‘I’s’ operating in him but believes that there is only one
‘I’ and the True one.
And moreover,
Since, one is not aware, he has no control over them.
Let us look at the above situation,
The Instinctive ‘I’ took precedence and acted,
The Emotional ‘I’ is suppressed and
The Intellectual ‘I’
supported the action.
All the three ‘I’s involved simply reacted according to what
they are, like machines.
The person in the situation had no control whatsoever over
the ‘I’s.
These ‘I’s controlled everything and the person did not have
the slightest control over
them.
What we can not
control can not belong to us.
So, these ‘I’s or Personalities do not belong to that
person.
In other words, they are not True but False ‘I’s..
These are called as False Personalities.
In any situation,
False Personalities controls everything, and the person in
the situation has no control over
them.
And so, all False personalities are wholly mechanical in
nature.
They can only REACT according to what they are but never RESPOND to a situation.
When we say RESPOND, we mean taking an integrated view of
the situation.
We saw in the above example, only fragmented INSTINCTVE view
was in
Consideration, emotional (Family), and intellectual (Social)
view did not appear.
Going beyond the example, we can examine many situations ourselves and
figure out the False
Personalities and their mechanical nature.
We have already seen in the earlier posts that 'Personality' or 'Ego-Self' is a cultivated entity and the
'Essence' or 'True-Self' is the real 'I'.
We will see, how to identify the False Personalities and bring out the real 'I' .
Self-Remembering is the tool to do that.
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