Choice by Essence – Healing Touch
In the last post, we talked about Choice – By Essence
(innate quality) or
Personality (Outer skills).
We also saw probable difficulties one would encounter by
making choice
entirely based on one’s Personality.
More than mere difficulties, failure can create rejection
and that in turn
creates stress,frustration, anger which are manifestation of behavior of
failure, and may lead to simple or complex psychological problems.
We have seen in the media about random shooting or targeted
shooting, the
offender claiming that ‘ Now
the world knows me’.
The offender’s declaration explains the reason behind his
insane behavior.
Reasons being Rejection, Failure etc.
We already mentioned
that a person is always seeking a place in the scheme
of things which brings Acceptance, Recognition and Security.
On failure, one’s mind may goes to pieces and depending on
the Personality
either he/she becomes depressed or turn anti-social, and might do anything
to gain attention.
At the extreme they could become suicidal or homicidal.
This happens because ‘Personality’ is taken as the ‘Self’,
not that ‘Self’ has
‘Personality’.
When traits of Personality is rejected by the Society, it is
taken as one’s very
being or presence is rejected or banished and tragic/Horrific incidents follow.
This is not case with one, who make choices based on the
Essence.
Essence being innate, it is UNIQUE to the person.
Being Unique, there ought to be a place for him in the
scheme of things.
Anybody, who is unique won’t compare him/her self with
others. (Comparison
defies Uniqueness).
Since there is no comparison, the person won’t be trapped in
psychological
complex of any kind (Superior
/Inferior).
Person is FREE, free from psychological ailments, if there
is any it will be
healed.
Person won’t seek undue, undeserved recognition or attention
from others
because one is doing what one is comfortable with and for his/her own
sake.
In difficulties or failure, He/She will study the outer
world and mould the
personality accordingly to realize its potential – mind won’t get
shattered.
So, it is imperative that one should take Essence into
account while making
choices and should develop effective Personality to succeed in their
ventures.
In short, ‘Personality Alone’ is blind and ‘Essence Alone’
is lame.
One has to find balance to attain the objectives.
More next.
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